30/01/2008

Richard chats to fans on the BB Africa 2 forum -

Richard after posting the corrected facts of the City Press article on the forum .... then went on to chat to fans for over an hour.

He left this message before signing off
"Guys, it's been a pleasure. The internet is too slow right now so I'm sorry I couldn't respond to all of you personally.
Even before I entered the house I didn't expect everyone to like me and I didn't think it would change when I got out of the house either. Even those who criticize me make me a stronger person. For those who don't believe its me, check my profile where I also updated my blog with my official statement about the city press article.
And for my fans,
I truly appreciate your support.
I'll be back on line soon to post my website details and to chat some more."

The inaccurate CITY PRESS article corrected by Richard -

One very unfortunate article written about Richard was published in the
CITY PRESS
It made unfair and inaccurate statements that upset Richard & many fans too.

Richard however visited the BB Africa Forum and there he published a corrected version with the correct facts to what had been falsely allegated in the article.

Wednesday
DECEMBER 12 2007 13:01 PM

Hi everybody! Richard here (the real one). Sorry I have been so distant, as you can imagine, I’ve had a lot to work out since I got out of the house. It’s been really crazy. Thanks to all my fans for your support and for choosing me as the BBA 2 Winner! I understand that after seeing me non stop in TV for three months my silence must have come as a shock to many of you, but my personal life had to come first. Having my wife by my side is what I really wanted so I had to make rebuilding my marriage my priority. Now that things have settled down, I’m really happy to be here to talk to you guys.

As you have been reading, a lot of stuff has been said about me in newspapers, most of it not true. Dealing with the media is a new experience for me and I have learned a lot about what they are capable of. I understand it is a natural reaction for you to be upset by all of these articles, but I hope after watching me for three months you know that I can’t say some of the crazy stuff that the media has come up with.

Please read any article with a very critical eye.

Here’s an example of an article that is full of lies.

My comments are in blue.

Richard ditches sexy Tatiana
Big Brother’s Richard ditches sexy Tatiana
Dominic Chimhavi and Cláudia Longa

BIG Brother Africa 2 winner Richard has told Angolan beauty Tatiana that their love affair is over.

In an exclusive interview a month after walking away with the US$100 000 (about R675 000) bounty from the Big Brother house, the outspoken Tanzanian said he had now fully reconciled with his estranged wife yes, it’s true and that by continuing to pursue him, Tatiana was fighting a losing battle. Tatiana is a very understanding person, I talked to her on the phone twice, both times to explain the situation and once things were made clear, she did not continue to pursue me. She is a stronger person than that and she has her own life. She wasn’t fighting my decision, she respected it.

Apart from phoning him almost daily no, not at all, it was twice in a bid to restart the love affair which set tongues wagging during their time in the house, Tatiana has also been lobbying Richard’s father, Vincent Bezuidenhout. No, she called him to ask for my number

Vincent confirmed that Tatiana had asked him to speak to Richard: “Richard is my son, but there’s no way in the world I can impose a wife or girlfriend on him. He knows what he wants and I’ve told Tatiana to have a frank chat with Richard.”

Richard says it looks like reality has not yet set in for Tatiana. In the beginning it wasn’t easy for her to accept the situation (after the first phone call) but after the second time talking to her it was clear to her “What happened in the house is now behind us. Let me take this opportunity to appeal to her that there is no reverse gear on this issue. I am now back with my wife big time.” For those who know me I would never talk like this (no reverse gear? Stupid wording) I have no need to appeal to her again because she already knows the deal! And I would never appeal to her in public, that would be humiliating.

Richard remained unapologetic about ruining Tatiana’s relationship with Gustav, her Cape Town-based boyfriend of many years, saying that “unfortunate development” was her own business. I said “everybody is taking care of their own lives now”, I said nothing about an unfortunate development or about Gustav. For all I knew when getting out of the house, if anyone’s relationship was in the most danger, it was mine. Everyone is responsible for their own actions and I handled my situation the best I could. I did not go into the house to spoil anyone’s relationship.

“The least I want now between the two of us, is minimum contact,” he insisted. During their three-month stay in the house viewers dubbed the two Richiana. I want everyone to know that the Richiana romantic relationship will not continue, however we are not enemies.

“Man, we had sex almost on a daily basis once we set the ball rolling,” said Richard, adding that they first had sex the day Maxwell was evicted. No, no, no. The hardcore viewers know this is not true. I told the interviewer it happened a few times and not until about 2 months into the game but it is really hard to know exactly when. Richard rubbished talks of sharing the winnings with Tatiana. I never at any point said I was going to share the money with her. He has fully reconciled with Ricki, who is now acting as his business manager. No, she is not acting as my manager, but just like any wife would, she is there for me and supporting me.

“We have sorted our problems with Ricki and she understood. Ninety-eight days in an enclosure is no joke. I did what I did because that was the only way one could survive under those conditions. But Ricki is such a strong character.”

For the first time the Canadian opened her heart, saying despite the pain of watching her husband flirting with another woman, the whole episode was now water under the bridge.

“Life has to go on. I love this man and no woman of flesh What real person would use “woman of flesh” in a sentence? Ricki doesn’t talk this way will stand between us. As we speak, I am the happiest woman in the world. “We went through a lot in the past few months and for now we just want to spend a lot of time together,” she said, adding that the talk of divorce had just been on the spur-of-the-moment. She didn’t say that, the media spun up a divorce rumor to sell papers. Yes, she went home to Canada to get away from the stress of watching, but came back on October 31 so she could talk to me.

Vincent said the entire family had smoked the peace pipe with Ricki.

“We had a long family chat that included my late wife’s elder sister Baturi, Richard’s brother Louis and elder sister Linda. “It was a brainstorming session but we all came out of it smiling and shaking hands.” Yes, our family is on good terms with each other and with Ricki

Vincent added that he got a good share of Richard’s winnings and was toying with an idea of re-marrying. First of all, I have not even received my winnings yet, it is still in the bank transfer process. Second, my dad would never remarry and he is not expecting any share. He will respect the way I spend it. Richard’s mother died 14 years ago and Vincent never remarried.

To the authors of this article, Dominic Chimhavi and Claudia Longa, I hope someday you learn to write with integrity for a reputable newspaper!

Last week in an exclusive interview, Tatiana said she didn’t regret what happened in the house. “If I was invited to another BBA, I would do it again.”

Tatiana said she had seen Gustav only twice since she arrived back home. “But I’m not worried about what he decides. I just want to be alone for a while to think about my life, put up my feet and make the right decisions.”

She added; “I always told Richard in the house that a marriage is a serious thing, if he had to reconcile with his wife, he should go ahead.”

FYI: I’m doing a Tanzania tour for the rest of this month, with exact dates and locations to be announced soon, then in January I’ll be visiting other African countries.

Once again, thanks and please keep supporting me. Don’t let the media take me away from you.
Richard meets one of the lovely ladies at this media office

Of course they all wanted their picture taken with him !!!
Richard meeting all the staff & editors


Richard being shown how the media covers news stories

The paint is still so evident to see in his hair !!!
Richard was invited to various radio stations and newspapers offices



Richard being show how the Radio Station is operated ....


He is shown how the camera's work ....


Film making is his passion & chosen career choice in life .....
Posing with two ladies at the Radio Station .....



Richard visited a Radio Station in Dar es Salaam .... one of many invites to visit various institutes
as winner of BB Africa 2


Here he poses with the staff

Dedication to Ricki -

THIS IS DEDICATED TO RICKI,THE ROCK,
THE FLOWER,THE QUEEN
As the whole of Africa sleeps, so does the cruelty that once bathed the forum i remember you, the queen of our hearts. Likes like you are so rare to find... where ever you are... find peace, find love. Your tears your fears... 3 months of terror, may it end with tears, not of pain but with joy. May you inspire the lost ones, the unstable ones and the unscrupulous ones that love heals all things..... a two edged sword indeed. May your life be a testament of admiration in breath taking patterns.

FINALLY,YOU SHOWED US THAT BEHIND EVERY FROWNING PROVIDENCE,
GOD HIDES A SMILLING FACE


Written & dedicated to Ricki
by Elsokros
( Oboma Forumist)

source- http://www.mnet.co.za/profiles/bba/ForumListing.aspx?bid=10&tid=14489&cp=15



QUOTE -

"How earnestly shall I strive
to pass my life with you,
and what a life it shall be!
However dearly you may love me,
I love you more fondly still.
Never conceal your feelings from me
for our love is truly a celestial mansion
as firm as heaven itself."



Thoughts on friendship, nature, love and creativity from the letters
of
Ludwig van Beethoven

Richard's marriage to Ricki -

I wish ....
"I wish you all the good and charm
that life can offer.
Think of me kindly,
and ...
Rest assured that no one
would more rejoice to hear of your
happiness."

They got married on the 31st of March 2007.

Basically 4 months before Richard left to enter BB Africa 2 in South Africa.
These are Richard's word about his wife Ricki from his official website ....
"My wife Ricki is a very beautiful woman both inside and outside. She is intelligent, loving, caring and very supportive and always believed I would be famous someday. She is a woman of substance. She has been through a lot during and after Big Brother but yet still holds her head up high. Not many women could withstand what she has been through. I’m so glad that we are both still standing strong and together after everything that has happened and despite all that has been said about us.
I love her very much."

Richiki make an OFFICIAL statement on TZ television -

As mentioned ... Richard & Ricki had had problems with their marriage due to the ... "on-goings" in the BB Africa House.

Needless to say it was an emotional upheaval for many.

At last on the 8th December 2007 ... nearly a month after Richard had got home to Tanzania as the winner of BB Africa 2 ... Richard & Ricki made an
OFFICIAL STATEMENT
on Tanzanian Television & said that they were officially back together and stronger than ever.


"A force to be reckoned with" ... they said !!!

CONGRATULATIONS & many BLESSNGS to both of them for having the strength of character and understanding to be able to forgive each other and move on positively.

BIG UP's !!!!!

Here are Richard's sentiments to me in a email ....

"My wife and i are doing just fine. people can say all that they want about my wife and I but the truth shall always remain the truth.We are stronger people now for what we have gone through. Our marriage is more blessed than ever."

THE FUNK MASTER


Getting down groovy, sexy and all those fabulous things that make up
the one & only
Richard Dyle Bezuidenhout !!!
Richard has the dance moves and the fabulous looks .... no wonder he was voted the winner of
BB Africa 2


Richard & Linda looking stunning !!!
All wanting a part of the BB Africa 2 Winner


All the guests wanted pictures taken with Richard


Linda with Miss Tanzania ... Wema Sepatu ....


.... adding GLITZ & GLAMOR to the party .......... !!!!
Beautiful people at Richard's Home Coming Party

The Bezuidenhout SMILES are winners for sure !!

Guests who came to Congratulate Richard on winning
BB Africa 2

Proudly Tanzanian !!!

Richi dancing with the pretty girls next to the poolside


All looking so glamorous !!
Richard's youngest bother Louis with their elder sister Linda

A stunningly beautiful & loving family !!!

Beautiful Bezuidehout Siblings

Linda, Edward & Richard
Richard & Linda getting Groovy !!!


....& both looking
STUNNING !!

Richard's Home Coming Party in Tanzania -

Richard's very posh Home Coming Party was held in
Dar es Salaam.



Here Richard is with his lovey sister Linda and an invited guest. Ricki bought Richard his very smart out-fit for the smart ocassion ... but she had decided that it was still far too early for her to take any sort of lime-light and thus did not attend this function.
MUCH RESPECT RICKI !!!

QUOTE -

To Dream

"Nothing happens unless first a dream."
Carl Sandberg"

"Withen our dreams and aspirations we find our opportunities."
"Sue Ebaugh"

"I am the master of my fate;
I am the captain of my soul."
William Ernest Henley"

If you can dream it, you can do it.
"Walt Disney

Richard may all your dreams come true .... you certainly have what it takes to make a success of your life !!!

"my dad is my hero"

Loving father Vincent .... keeping all the articles about his son Richard

Richard's Mother passed away when he was still the very very young age of eleven. Richard's father thus assumed the responsibility of both mother and father. His father always told him to ... finish what he started ... and that is something he remembers in everything he does in life. It can be mentioned that Richard at one time wished to quit the BB house due to him feeling so bad about hurting his wife. Obviously his father's lesson reminded him to be strong and continue.
Richard's sentiment ...
"I have always said that my dad is my hero."
There were so many newspaper articles written about Richard whilst he was in the house and naturally afterwards too.


The picture on the cover of this newspaper was taken whilst Richard was working on a film in the BB house.
The film told the story of three vamps known as Biggie's Angels & the encounter between the Angels and Richard had plenty of thrills and drama, adventure and suspense.
Richard really enjoyed the creativity of this ... seeing that his wish for the future is to go into the Film Industry as a director.
Part of his winnings has been put aside to go towards this ambition of
Film Producing ... which he wishes persuing
as his future career.
After arriving back in Dar es Salaam .... Richard had to be up very early the following morning to be at interviews and face the many questions put to him regarding his stay in the BB Africa house.


It's great being the winner.... but it comes with a lot of hard work & of course ... responsibilities too.
Richard showed his excellant "work ethics" in the BB house when it came to tasks ... so he would manage very well with his new responsibilities
& in doing so
make Tanzania very proud of their BB representitive !!!

QUOTE -

LOVE

"Love knows no limit to it's endurance,
No end to it's trust,
No fading of it's hope;
It can outlast anything.
Love still stands when
All else has fallen."

Corinthians 13:7 - 8


Richard kept Ricki's photo as a constant remider of her ... in a book of
African Folk-Tales that he took into the BB house to read.
Here he is lying on the couch looking at her photo.

Richard & Ricki show their strength of character ...

Richard's wife Ricki had decided to give the lime-light a miss ... and stayed away from the airport when Richard arrived back from South Africa as the newly crowned winner of
Big Brother Africa.

He however immediately went to Ricki's hotel after all the fuss at the airport & the congratulatory dinner back at his hotel room. There they met privately for the 1st time in just over three months.

Fences needed to be mended ... but they took their time discussing & working through the situaion. Fortunately their strength of character & devotion to each other resulted in them getting back together again.


Richard's words to me in an email read ...
"people can say all that they want about my wife and I but the truth shall always remain the truth. We are stronger people now for what we have gone through"
-O-

Why God Made Little Girls

God made the world with towering trees,
majestic mountains and restless seas.
Then paused and said,
"It needs one more thing;
someone to laugh and dance and sing.
To walk in the woods and gather flowers
to commune with nature in quiet hours."
So God made little girls
with laughing eyes and bouncing curls,
with joyful hearts and infectious smiles,
enchanting ways and feminine wiles.
And when He'd completed the task
He'd begun,
He was pleased and proud of the job
He'd done.
For the world, when seen
through a little girl's eyes,
greatly resembles
Paradise.
**
Author Unknown

28/01/2008

Richard Dyle Bezuidenhout
Tanzania's BB Africa 2 Representitive
&
He arrived home as the
WINNER
CONGRATULATIONS !!!!!!
Home at last in Tanzania after being locked up for three long months in the
Big Brother Africa House in South Africa
&
now it was time to celebrate !!!!


Richard standing with Ms Lucy T Ngongoseke Kihwele,
Publicity/Public Relations Manager,
MultiChoice Tanzania
Safely back at the hotel Richard can show his father his winnings.


$100 000 !!!
Richard is escourted out of the airport by police

as
Richard waves a final thanks and good-bye to all his fan.
Richard was MOBBED by all the fans who were so excited to eventually meet him !!


It had been raining very heavily in Dar es Salaam .... but they braved the
down pours and got to the airport just to meet the
TANZANIAN BB Africa Winner
who had made them so proud!!!
Richard arriving in Dar es Salaam after a long flight from Johannesburg


Little did he know that he would soon need security from the police to keep all his fans at bay who had waited anxiously at the airport to meet & congratulate him.

Richard eventually arrives in Tanzania from South Africa with the briefcase holding his winning prize of
$100 000 !!!


He is greeted by thousands of fans .... his father being the most important !!!
Even Tanzanian fans waiting in Dar es Salaam for Richard to arrive home from South Africa
were wearing t-shirts with Richard's lovely face on.


PROUDLY TANZANIAN !!!!
Richards family all waiting at the airport to welcome him home in
Dar es Salaam



They all wore ... "Supporter's T-Shirts" ... to make the ocassion
more special & to show Richard how much they love him !!!
Linda had a special "Home-Coming" t-shirt made for Richard to wear on his arrival in Dar es Salaam.


BBA 2 WINNER
Richard's brother Louis, sister Linda and father Vincent
standing in front of
Multichoice Tanzania


On their way to the airport in Dar es Salaam - Tanzania to welcome home their brother & son after winnng the $100 000 in the BB Africa 2 Reality Show.

QUOTE -

"Every day is lost in which
we do not learn something useful.
Man has no nobler or more valuable
possesion than time."


Thoughts on friendship, nature, love and creativity from the letters

of

Ludwig van Beethoven
OR Tambo Airport - 14 November 2007


4ever & ever an adent fan of BB Africa 2 winner ... Richard Dyle Bezuidenhout

OR Tambo Airport

Richard's ... Au revoir wave to me & South Africa before he departs for Tanzania.
He promised to be back .... & he kept his word.
Pictures will follow later !!!
OR Tambo Airport


Richard booking in his luggage - notice his yellow BB vanity case.
Richard at OR Tambo Airport - 14 November 2007

Returning home to Tanzania

Richard at OR Tambo Airport Johannesburg - SouthAfrica
before
returning home to Tanzania after winning
BB Africa 2



Here Richard poses with one of his most ardent fans
Young & Old across Africa fell in love with him !!!!